To every parents / parents-to-be out there.... this is so important. You CANNOT underestimate the power of 'being there'. Do not ever, ever let your child be uncomfortable crying in front of you. No matter how old they are, let them know that mama / papa is here.
I know it is difficult to watch your kid cry and not be able to do anything, do it anyway, always let your child seek solace in you.
Even if it means breaking your own heart.